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Logging Information Security & Privacy
Membership Questions Our Monthly Magazine: Two B Loved
About My Profile Press & News Board
About Hot List Blogs
Chat & Instant Messenger Forums
Contacting Other Members Podcasts
Our Policies  

 

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Logging Information

*      I Forgot My Password. How Do I Retrieve It?

*      How Do I Change My Username Or Password?

*      Why Do not You Use Usernames?

 

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Membership Questions

*      How Do I Become A Free Member?

*      What Is A Star™ Membership?

*      How Do I Become A Star™ Member?

*      What is a Coin and what can I do with it?

*      What is a Piggybank?

*      How Do I earn Free Coins?

*      How Can I Become A Star™ Member Without Using A Credit Card?

*      Do I Need A Star™ Membership To Reply To A Message I Received On The Site?

*      How Can I Check The Status Of My Profile?

*      What Is The Auto-Renewal Feature?

*      What Is Your Refund Policy For Early Membership Termination?

*      Can I Terminate My Star™ Membership, But Continue To Send And Receive Messages?

*      Can I Terminate My Membership?

 

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About My Profile

*      How Do I Post My Free Profile?

*      How Do I Update My Profile?

*      What Are The Profile Guidelines?

*      Why Am I Not Receiving Many Replies?

*      How Can I See Who Has Looked At My Profile?

*      How Do I Upload Photos?

*      How Do I Add More Photos?

*      How Many Photos Can I Add?

*      Can I Upload A Video Clip?

*      Guidelines For Posting A Photo Or Video:

*      Why I Can't See My Own Profile In The Search Result?

*      I'd Like To Know Who's Been Viewing My Profile.

*      How Do I Delete My Profile?

 

 

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About Hot List

*      What Is Hot List?

*      How Do I Add A Member As My Hottie?

*      How Do I Delete A Member From My Hot List?

*      How Many Hotties Can I Have On My Hot List?

*      How Long Will Members Remain In My Hot List?

*      Do I Have To Subscribe To Add A Hottie?


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Chat & Instant Messenger

*      What Do I Need To Use The Instant Messenger?

*      How Do I Appear Online So That Others Can Chat With Me?

*      How Can I Use The Site Without Appearing Online To Others?

*      How Can I Initiate A Conversation With Someone I See Online?

*      Can I See The Who's Online List Without Appearing Online?

*      Why Is My Who's Online List Not Popping Up?

*      How Do I Disable My Pop-Up Blocker?

*      Why Do I Get A Blank Window When Trying To Chat With Someone?

* My Instant Messenger Chat Window Won't Finish Loading. What Should I Do?

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Contacting Other Members

*      I've found somebody I would like to communicate with. How do I do that?

*      Do I Need A Star™ Membership To Reply To A Message I Received On The Site?

*      How Do I Know If I Have New Messages In My Mailbox?

*      How Do I Read My Mail?

*      How Do I Send Mail?

*      How Do I Know If I Have New Messages In My Mailbox?

*      How Do I Know If My Email Was Read?

*      Can I Include My Personal E-Mail Address As Part Of My E-Mail To Another Member?

*      What If I Write Members And Do Not Receive Responses?

*      What Are Winks?

*      How Do I Send Members Winks?

*      Someone Sent Me A Wink, Who Was It?

*      Why Am I Not Receiving Winks And New Email Notifications?

*      How Can I Prevent A Member From Contacting Me?

*      How Do I Unblock A Previously Blocked Member?.

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Our Policies

*      What Policies Must I Follow While Using The Site?

*      How Does The Site Handle My Personal Information?

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Security And Privacy

*      Are The Messages I Send To Other Members Anonymous

*      How Should I Begin My Correspondence With A Member?

*      When Is The Right Time To Disclose My Email Address Or Phone Number?

*      Should I Exercise Caution?

*      Should I Request A Photo?

*      Should I Speak With A Potential Suitor On The Phone?

*      When Should I Meet Face To Face?

*      What Should Make Me Wary?

*      Where Should We First Meet?

*      How Do I Perform A Detailed Search?

*      How Do I Save A Search?

*      Why Am I Not Getting Many Search Results From My Detailed Search?

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Our Monthly Magazine: Two B Loved

*      How Can I Subscribe To Magazine?

*      I Love Your Newsletters, But Missed One. How Do I Obtain Past Issues?

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Press & News Board

*      What Type Of Information Are Considered Relevant And Are Allowed On The News Board?

*      How Do I Post Relevant Information On The News Board?

*      How Do I Obtain Prior Press Releases?

 

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Blogs & Forums

*      How Do I Participate In The Blog?

*      How Do I Offer Ideas Or Topics For The Blog Page?

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Podcasts

*      What Is A Podcast?

*      Do You Have Podcast?

*      How Do I Download Podcast?

*      How Do I Obtain Previously Released Podcasts?

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Logging Information

I Forgot My Password. How Do I Retrieve IT?

To retrieve a forgotten Password:

1.     Click on the Lost Password on the homepage.

2.     Enter your e-mail address and submit.

3.     Your Password will automatically be sent to your e-mail address.

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Why Don't You Use Usernames?

In case you have not yet registered with us and are not familiar with our site we do not use a Username. Here, you only need your e-mail address and your password to login. We felt that in today's ocean of username and password memorizations NOT having to remember one more "thing" is priceless!

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How Do I Change My Username or Password?

         Since we use e-mail address and not usernames, you will not be able to change it. Your Email address is registered with the website and can not be changed.

         To change your Password, Click on Homepage . Log in using your current username and password. Then, click on Change Password under My Playground on the left. Enter new password and verify with old password.

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Membership Questions

How Do I Become A Free Member?

Simply go to www.SingleDr.com and fill out the free profile. Once completed, your information is reviewed by our Quality Control Team and subsequently posted on the website. It may take up to 24 hours for your Profile to be posted. We appreciate your patience.

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What Is A Star™ Membership?

A Star™ Membership allows you to send unlimited emails, flirts, to use our True Personality Matching System to find your perfect match, chat, instant message and send gifts to other members all at no extra charge.

 

What is a Coin and what can I do with it?

It's a Pay-as-You-Go plan. The most convenient option is to become a Star™ member, however you can "Pay-as-You-Go" by purchasing or earning coins. You may then spend your coins on features normally reserved for Star™ Members such as sending mail, gifts, checking out your True Personality Matches and chatting with members.

 

 

What is A Piggybank?

It's where your coins are kept. Click on the image of the pink piggybank to see how much you've earned so far or look at the number of coins beside it.

 

 

How can I earn Free Coins?

After you login, click on the Pink piggybank on top of the page and learn of ways you may actually earn free coins.

Some of those options are: Inviting your friends to your Social Circle™ or inviting members to SingleDr through your Facebook page, sending friends free e-cards, posting photographs, signing up with one of our sponsored companies.

 

How Do I Become A Star™ Member

If You are not a Free Member: Once you have successfully completed your Profile and uploaded your photos or video clip, you'll be automatically directed to the Star™ Membership page, where you may choose a suitable Membership plan and become a Star™ Member.

If you are already a Free Member: After logging in, proceed to the My Playground on the left and click on Upgrade Now.


How Can I Become A Star™ Member Without Using A Credit Card?

The first step is to complete the Profile and register as a Member. Once you have completed the registration, you will have 3 choices.

1.     If you are concerned about internet security, you may pay over the phone by calling our customer service department toll free at: 1 (617) 624-0900 Monday-Friday 9-5 EST.

2.     If you don't have or don't wish to use a credit card, you may pay by electronic check. Simply have your check book handy and call us at: 1 (617) 624-0900 Monday-Friday 9-5 EST.

3.     You may also mail us your U.S. Check or Money Order to:

 

HUMAN FUZION

ATTN: Payments

396 Washington Street

Suite: 186

Wellesley, MA. 02481

U S A

 

Already Registered? By logging-in and selecting Manage Account, under My Playground you'll be directed to Membership page. Choose Pay by Mail on top, print and mail the form or use the above address to send in your payments.

Please note that SingleDr can only accept Checks and Money Orders payable on U.S. banks only.

 

Do I Need A Star™ Membership To Reply To A Message I Received On The Site?

No, you do not have to purchase a Star™ Membership to reply to an email. You may reply to each message you receive once for free. However, you must purchase a Star™ Membership to make first contact with someone or to send more than one reply.

How Can I Check The Status Of My Profile?

Click on My Social Card and check or change your profile.

Your True Personality Matching Profile™ (normally valued at $49), is completely FREE and is offered as a limited time gift to our members. Your profile will be posted once your Profile and information were inspected by our Quality Control Team. If you have purchased a Star™ Membership you can see its status by clicking on your "My Playground" then on "Manage Membership" link.

 

What Is The Auto-Renewal Feature?

Auto-Renewal is a time and money saving feature provided to all our Star™ Members. It allows for uninterrupted service (membership) and a discounted membership rate (for 6 or 12 month memberships only).

 

Unless you choose not to keep the Auto-Renewal feature, SingleDr.com will charge your credit card each month at a reduced rate. However, you can deactivate the Auto-Renewal feature, by clicking on Manage Membership under My Playground page and follow the instructions. In order not to be charged, you must deactivate the auto-renewal feature before the end of your current billing period.

What Is Your Refund Policy For Early Membership Termination?

We do NOT pro-rate your paid membership plan. You may contact us at any time to end your Star™ membership plan. However, please be aware that SINGLEDR will end your membership but will not reimburse you for the UNUSED membership period. For example, if you purchased a 3 month Star™ membership and decided to cancel after 3 weeks, you are forfeiting the remainder of your membership plan and will not be refunded any portion of the remaining 2months and 1 week membership plan. This refund policy is clearly stated in the Terms and Conditions Agreement that members require to agree to (check off) prior to purchase of any memberships and also in our refund policy which is also clearly presented on the payment page.

 

Can I Terminate My Star™ Membership, But Continue To Send And Receive Messages?

Free Members can receive messages and reply to those messages. However, they can not initiate e-mails at will to any member.

 

 

Can I Terminate My Membership?

Yes you can, but we recommend against it. You will lose the opportunity to receive updated news, blogs and latest medical and social gathering information. What many of our members do, is that once they've found that special someone, they simply change their subscription plan to a Free Membership and continue to get the latest news and information about medicine, research, law, conferences, concerts, podcasts, interviews and more, not to mention the VIP, discounted services and products offered exclusively to Doctors and Professionals. If you still wish to erase your information, simply log in and click on Cancel Membership under My Playground. Once you do cancel, all your information will be erased and is irretrievable by us or by you.

 


About My Profile

How Do I Post My Free Profile?

Click on Join Now and fill out the requested information. Once you complete each page, click on the "Continue" link at the bottom of each page . Repeat the process until you have completed your profile. Be sure to upload your photo and begin your search for your match. Good Luck!

 

How Do I Update My Profile?

Simply go to Homepage and login - Once logged-in you will see the My Playground on left - Update any aspect of your profile.

 

Edit your profile as often as you like. To edit your profile, go to your "My Home" page. On the left side of the page will be several navigation links. You can edit "My Home" information (email address, personal information), "My Profile" information (Headline", "At First Glance", "About My Match", "My Answers") and "My Matches" ("About My Match" ).

What Are The Profile Guidelines?

Our Member Safety Team carefully reads and reviews every Profile. This is for your safety and other members and may take up to 48 hours, but usually much less. Once your Profile is reviewed, our sophisticated matching software reviews your answers and matches them against the most suitable candidates.This may take a few minutes at that time we may send you an e-mail of suitable matches or pictures of those candidates for your review or you may search our member list for a suitable match.

 

How might we reject a Profile?

 

Most of the guidelines are common sense rules to maintain the integrity, prestige and safe environment of this website.Some of those guidelines include the presence of:

  ANY DIRECT CONTACT INFORMATION, INCLUDING EMAIL ADDRESSES, URLS TO ANY OTHER SITE, ICQ OR INSTANT MESSENGER I.D. INFORMATION, ANY PHONE NUMBERS (INCLUDING MOBILE, HOME, WORK, FAX,ETC...), FULL NAMES (FIRST AND LAST), ANY PART OF YOUR ADDRESS (INCLUDING HOME, WORK, MAIL BOX, ETC).

 

  Abusive language of any kind, including vulgarity, racism, illegal activity, etc;

 

  Unauthorized use of copyrighted or trademarked material;

 

  Business or political advertisements or solicitations;

 

  Content directed at exploiting or soliciting or obtaining personal information from individuals under age individuals and those under the age of 18;

 

  Soliciting sex or describing sexual content or activity, sexual anatomy;

 

  Soliciting relationships involving group or multiple partnerships.

 

  Material or contents posted by incarcerated individuals or by minors (those under the age of 18).

 

  Any materials or contents that are prohibited by the local, City, State, National or International laws.

 

Any such information will result in immediate termination of a membership (Free or Star™) without any advanced notice and without a refund.

Why Am I Not Receiving Many Replies?

If you don't already have a photo, add one today. Our statistics show that profiles with photos are more likely to receive responses. Also be sure you're checking for responses at the email address you gave us when you registered for the site. If you're not receiving any responses, you may have a "Spamguard" in place that is preventing email from reaching you. Check with your service provider.


How Can I See Who Has Looked At My Profile?

You need to be a Star™ Member to see who has looked at your profile. On My Playground, click on the "See Who" link in the Profile Stats. A list of the potential matches who have viewed you will be displayed, showing the latest person to view you first.

 

How Do I Upload Photos?

Before you begin make sure that your photos are: .jpg or .gif or .bmp or .png formats and their size does not exceed 800 KB.

Uploading Directions: Log in and under My Playground click on Manage Photos. To upload your photo(s) click the Browse button and find the photos on your computer (If you are using Netscape®, make sure you are able to see All Files not just the HTML Files, and click Upload Photos). The time it takes you to upload your photo will depend on the size of your photos. If you set your photo as the Main photo, your picture will be set as the Main image for your profile so that it appears in both your profile and in Search Results. Main photo is the first photo seen by other members. If you click "Delete" this will permanently remove your photo from your profile. In the event you do not have your photo in digital format, write your nickname and the email address used to register for the site on the back of your photo and mail it to: SINGLEDR, ATTN: Member's Photos, 396 Washington St. Suite: 186, Wellesley, MA 02481 USA.

Please note that we can not return photos so we urge you to send duplicates.

How Do I Add More Photos?

Under My Playground, click on Manage Pictures and click on Thumbnail. This will allow you to add more photos.

 

How Many Photos Can I Add?

Star™ Members can upload up to 20 photos and Free Members can upload 1.

Can I Upload A Video Clip?

Yes.

 

1.     As a newly registered Member, upon the completion of the Profile, you will have the opportunity to upload your photo or video clip.

2.     As a member, click on My Photos or My Videos under the My Playground and click Browse under Video, choose and upload you video clip from your computer.

 

 

Guidelines For Posting A Photo or Video:

It is our goal to make our Members feel as safe and secure as possible while surfing the site. To this end, we carefully inspect the content of all photos and videos prior posting them on the site. Please note that photos will only appear on the site after they have been approved by our (MST) Member Safety Team.

 

To avoid delays or rejections, please follow the photo guidelines listed below:

 

  Your photos must be within our approved format.

  Photos must be FREE of any Nudity, sexually (or otherwise) offensive material.

  We're not allowed to post Copyrighted materials.

  Photos must be in .jpg or .gif or .bmp or .png formats and their size can not exceed 800 KB.

  Image size should be no more than 300 pixels wide.

  You must appear in each photo! (It is OK to have friends or family included in the photos as long as you are also in them).

 

Why Can't I See My Own Profile In The Search Result?

Assuming you have already created your profile, there are 3 reasons why your profile may not be appearing in the Search Results:

 

1.     Your Profile is Incomplete: You have saved and exited the profile prior to completion. Simply return to homepage, log in and complete your profile.

2.     Your profile needs to be approved: Please be patient. (This usually takes only a few hours and never exceeds 48 hours).

 

I'd Like To Know Who's Been Viewing My Profile.

To see who has viewed your profile, click on "See Who" in the Profile Stats on My home.

How Do I Delete My Profile?

You may delete your profile at any time by clicking on Delete Profile in the My Playground section. Once deleted, your profile will be permanently erased and ca not be recovered. If you are a Star™ Member, your membership will be lost. Instead of deleting your profile, you may elect to Hide it, making available to you, but not to other members.

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About Hot List

 

What Is Hot List?

Hot List is a list of profiles you have saved because they were of interest to you.

How Do I Add A Member to My Hot List

Visit the member's profile and click on Add to Hot List

How Do I Delete A Member From My Hot List?

Visit the member's profile and click on Remove from Hot List

How Many "Hotties" Can I Have On My Hot List?

You may save as many Hotties as you would like.

How Long Will Members Remain In My Hot List?

Members will remain in your Hot List until you decide to delete them.

Do I Have To Be A Star™ Member To Add A Hottie?

No, but you do have to be a Registered Member.

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Chat & Instant Messenger


What do I need to use the Instant Messenger?

In order for your Instant Messenger to properly work, you'll need to have:

 

1.     Flash installed on your computer.

2.     Your pop-up blocker disabled.

3.     JavaScript enabled on your browser.

 

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How do I appear online so that others can Chat with me?

In order for someone to initiate an Instant Messenger conversation with you, they must see that you are online. When you are online, your nickname is listed in the Who's Online list, and a "Chat Now" icon appears on your profile. When you login to your profile, you automatically appear online.


 

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How can I use the site without appearing online to others?

In order to NOT appear online, you must click the "Offline" link next to your nickname at the top of every page. You will remain offline until the next time you login. To appear online again, simply click the "Online" link next to your nickname at the top of every page.

 

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How Can I Initiate A Conversation With Someone I See Online?

To inititate a conversation you must be a Star™ Member. From the Who's Online list, you can click on someone's nickname to bring up a Chat window. You can also click on the "Chat Now" icon on someone's profile.


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Can I see the Who's Online list without appearing online?

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Why Is My Who's Online List Not Popping Up?

The most likely reason is your pop-up blocker software.To avoid additional problems with this site, we recommend you disable your pop-up blocker option.

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1.     Do you have a toolbar from Yahoo! (help), MSN (help), or Google (help)? If yes, then the source of your pop-up blocker is most likely within those toolbars (Follow directions on the above links).

2.     If you are using Windows Vista or XP Service Pack 2 (SP2) with Internet Explorer follow these instructions to disable the pop-up blocker:

 

a.     Open your Internet Explorer

b.    Under the Tools menu, go to Pop-up Blocker and click Pop-up Blocker Settings.

 

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c.     Type our website's address in the box called Address of Web

d.    Click Add.

 

3.     If above steps were not successful,

4.     check to see if your browser's JavaScript has been disabled:

a.     In the Internet Explorer page go to Tools, choose Internet Options , Security and click on the Default Setting.This will reset your browser and restore the JavaScript function.

 

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Why Do I Get A Blank Window When Trying To Chat With Someone?

This is most likely due to the fact that Flash is not installed on your system. To get a free copy of Flash, please visit Macromedia.


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My Instant Messenger Chat Window Won't Finish Loading. What Should I Do?

It is possible that your computer is having difficulty downloading the Instant Messenger Chat window. You may see that the window loads up to a certain point and then freezes (won't load up beyond that point).

In this case you'll need to clear your Cache by deleting your Temporary Internet Files. This is how: In Internet Explorer click on Tools, choose Internet Options and click Delete in the Temporary Internet Files box. In Firefox, click on Tools go to Options, choose the Privacy tab and click clear beside the Cache.

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Contacting Other Members

I've Found Somebody I Would Like To Communicate With. How Do I Do That?

You must be a Star™ Member to send messages to other members. Under My Playground click on Upgrade Membership and choose your plan of choice.

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Do I Need A Star™ Membership To Reply To A Message I Received On The Site?

No, you do not have to purchase a Star™ Membership to reply to an email. You may reply to each message you receive once for free. However, you must purchase a Star™ Membership to make first contact with someone or to send more than one reply.

 

 

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How Do I Know If I Have New Messages In My Mailbox?

Once logged-in, go to My Playground and click on Messages.

 

 

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How Do I Read My Mail?

Once logged-in, go to My Playground and click on Messages. All your messages are stored there for you to read and to reply to.

 

 

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How Do I Send Mail?

Once you completed your FREE True matching Personality Profile™, you'll be prompted to upload your photos and will be directed to the Membership page. In order to Send mail, you will need to subscribe to Star™ Membership. Once a Star™ Member, you'll have unlimited Mail, Chat, Instant Messenger and Search capabilities.

 

 

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How Do I Know If I Have New Messages In My Mailbox?

Each time a member sends you mail, you will be notified by email - this is only applicable if the e-mail address supplied to us at the time of registration is valid and available to you. Upon receipt of the "New Mail" notification, simply log on to the website using your "nickname" and "password" and click on " My Mail".

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I Sent Someone An E-Mail, How Will I Know My E-Mail Was Read?

Click on Sent Mail. If the envelope is open next to the email you sent, then your message has been read and received.

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Can I Include My Personal E-Mail Address As Part of My E-Mail To Another Member?

It is Dangerous! For your safety and security we recommend that you do not to post your personal information. Once you disclose your personal information, you'll have no way of getting it back! Since you can freely Chat, IM and E-mail other members there is no need to disclose personal information.

 

 

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What If I Write Members And Do Not Receive Responses?

You should never take this personally. There could be any number of reasons for the lack of response, for example:

1.     Member may not be responding because they have been busy and inactive for a while.

2.     Or perhaps they have been communicating with one or two other members and are currently focusing on them. Many times members see a delayed response to their mail. Be patient!

3.     Another possibility is that the member may not think that the "match" is compatible

For more advice on maximizing potential responses, please read related topics and articles in our monthly Magazine - Two B Loved. You can find past issues and articles under the Magazine Archives section on the homepage).

In the mean time, here are some helpful advices that may increase your responses:

1.     If you haven't added a photo, do so. Members with photos get 60% more response and Singles with a video clip get 85% more responses than those without them.

2.     Have a friend or loved one read your profile and give you an honest opinion.

3.     Broaden your search and increase your emails and Winks. The more you do, the higher the chance of receiving a response.

4.     Be Patient! As you Doctors have busy schedules and they may not get to checking their emails daily.

5.     And finally remember that there are plenty of other wonderful single Doctors and Professionals for you to meet on the site so go on and enjoy the experience. You will find that special someone.

Did You Know? You'll be able to tell if your Member-of-interest has opened your mail. An opened mail will present as an opened envelope in your Sent Message folder.

 

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What Are Winks?

Winks are a way for Members to express their interest in you. It's a first step for a Member to tell you they like your Profile and want to get to know you better. When you receive a Wink, you'll have the opportunity to check the sender's Profile and decide whether or not you wish to respond to them. You do not need to be a Star™ Member to send Winks.


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How Do I Send Members Winks?

Once you visit a Member's Profile that interests you, simply click on the Send Wink icon. Choose one or more of the sentences provided to create your message and click on Send Wink.


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Someone Sent Me A Wink, Who Was It?

When a member sends you a Wink, you are automatically notified by email (of course, this can only occur if the provided e-mail address is a valid and functional one). Upon receipt of the "You Have A Wink" notification, simply log on to the website using your "email address " and "password" and click on the "My Winks" link to find out who sent you the Wink.


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Why Am I Not Receiving Wink And New Mail Notifications In My Email?

In all likelihood your Junk Filter(s) only allows you to receive e-mail from addresses appearing in your Contacts, service announcements from your email service provider, and messages you have consented to receive. By relaxing your filters, or by explicitly allowing messages coming from Singledr.com.com to be delivered to your account, you should be able to receive your notification alerts for new messages and Winks.

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How Can I Prevent A Member From Contacting Me?

To prevent a Member from contacting you, simply click the Block Sender button when reading that member's email. The next time they attempt to send you a message they will be notified that you have blocked them and no longer wish to receive correspondence from them.

You may be interested in knowing that the Block feature also prevents members from sending you Email, Winks and Instant Messages.


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How Do I Unblock A Previously Blocked Member?

To Start accepting messages from someone you have blocked, click the Blocked Senders List link displayed in your Mailbox. You can see who you have blocked and unblock whomever you wish.


Our Policies

What Policies Must I Follow While Using The Site?

Please review the policies described in our Terms of Use.

How Does The Site Handle My Personal Information?

We respect your privacy and do what we can to protect it. Please refer to our Privacy Policy for details.

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Security And Privacy


Are The Messages I Send To Other Members Anonymous?

Yes. We preserve your privacy by delivering your messages through our system. None of your personal information (real name, email address, date of birth) is divulged to other members. You may choose to do so at your own discretion.

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How Should I Begin My Correspondence With A Member?

Communication should begin via email. When meeting new people, we recommend you have an open mind, nevertheless, we recommend you be wary of odd behavior or inconsistencies. The person at the other end may not be who or what he or she says. Trust your instincts.

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When Is The Right Time To Disclose My Email Address And/Or Phone Number?

All correspondence between our site members takes place through our double-blind system, ensuring your true identity is protected until you decide to reveal it. Never include your last name, email address, home address, phone number, place of work or any other identifying information in your profile or initial messages. Start slowly, develop a rapport and, when and if you feel comfortable, feel free to offer your personal email address and/or phone number.


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Should I Exercise Caution?

Of course, like any other new situation we recommend you make thoughtful and informed decisions. Guard against trusting the untrustworthy . Suitors must earn your trust gradually, through consistently honorable and forthright behavior. Take all the time you need to test for a trustworthy person and pay careful attention along the way. If you suspect someone is lying, he or she probably is, so act accordingly. We advise you act responsibly about romance and not become prematurely intimate with someone, even if that intimacy only occurs online. If you mutually decide to cross the point of no return, be smart and protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases.

 

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Should I Request A Photo?

A photo will give you a good idea of the person's appearance, which may prove helpful in achieving a gut feeling. In fact, it's best to view several images of someone in various settings: casual, formal, indoor and outdoors. If all you hear are excuses about why you can't see a photo, consider they have something to hide. We offer free photo scanning services to our members so there is no reason someone shouldn't be able to provide you a photo.

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Should I Speak With A Member of Interest On The Phone?

A phone call can tell a lot a person's communication and social skills. Consider your security and do not reveal your personal phone number to a stranger. Try a cell phone number instead or use local telephone blocking techniques to prevent your phone number from appearing in Caller ID. Only furnish your phone number when you feel completely comfortable.


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When Should I Meet Face To Face?

The beauty of meeting and relating online is that you can collect information gradually, later choosing whether to pursue the relationship in the offline world. You never are obligated to meet anyone, regardless of your level of online intimacy. Even if you decide to arrange a meeting, you always have the right to change your mind. It is possible your decision to keep the relationship at the anonymous level is based on a hunch that you can't logically explain. Trust yourself and your instincts.


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What Should Make Me Wary?

We recommend you be wary of the following: displays of anger; intense frustration; attempts to pressure or control you; passive-aggressive behavior; demeaning or disrespectful comments; physically inappropriate behavior; inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment; failure to provide direct answers to direct questions.


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Where Should We First Meet?

On your first date, we advise you meet in a safe place and tell a friend where you are going and when you will return. Leave your date's name and telephone number with your friend. Provide your own transportation and meet at a familiar restaurant or coffee shop when a lot of other people are present. If you decide to move to another location, take your own car. When the timing is appropriate, thank your date for getting together and say goodbye. If you are flying in from another city, arrange for your own car and hotel room. Call your date from the hotel or meet at the location you have already agreed to. If the location seems inappropriate or unsafe, go back to your hotel. Always make sure a friend or family member knows your plans and has your contact information. And if possible, carry a cell phone.

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What's a Detailed Search and How Do I Perform it?

It is a more comprehensive search with more detailed parameters for you to zero in on specific category of members.To do a detailed search, click on Detailed Search. Start searching with the following criteria country, state, zip code, age and gender. Then narrow your search with physical characteristics and lifestyles. You can even search for keywords in other members' profiles. Play around and try a variety of searches.

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Click on Social Card tab on top of page; then click on Find Matches after completing your Search, click on save search.

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Why Am I Not Getting Many Search Results From My Detailed Search?

There are several ways to increase the number of matches you receive. Check the basic criteria in your search. Your search radius may be too narrow? Is your age range too tight?

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